Can You Keep Your Military ID After Divorce? –
“Do I Have to Turn In My Military ID After Divorce?”
Losing your military ID can mean losing commissary access, healthcare, and base privileges—so it’s no surprise this is a major concern for divorcing spouses. Here’s the truth about who keeps their ID and for how long.
1. When Can You Keep Your ID?
You may retain your military ID if:
20/20/20 Rule Applies (20 years marriage + 20 years service + 20-year overlap) → Keep ID indefinitely
20/20/15 Rule → Keep ID for 1 year post-divorce
2. What Benefits Come With the ID?
– Commissary & Exchange Access
– Base Privileges (MWR, gyms, etc.)
– Space-A Travel (if eligible)
Note: TRICARE eligibility is separate—check our previous article on 20/20/20 for healthcare rules.
3. What If You Don’t Qualify Under 20/20/20?
– ID must be surrendered once the divorce is final.
– Children’s IDs remain valid until they age out.
4. How to Get a New Dependent ID as a Former Spouse
1. Finalize your divorce decree (must specify benefits).
2. Visit DEERS with:
– Divorce certificate
– Court order (if required)
– Two forms of ID
3. Get your new tan-colored ID card (no longer blue).
5. What If Your Ex-Spouse Retires or Leaves Service?
– 20/20/20 benefits continue as long as the service member is eligible for retirement.
– If they separate before retirement, you lose all privileges.
Need Help Securing Your Post-Divorce Benefits?
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