Serving Divorce Papers to a Deployed Service Member –
If your spouse is in the military and stationed overseas, you might be wondering:
“How do I even get them divorce papers when they’re halfway around the world?”
The good news? It’s possible—but there are special rules to follow. Here’s your step-by-step guide to doing it right.
1. Understand the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) Protections
Before anything else, know that:
The SCRA protects deployed service members from default judgments
You must make every reasonable effort to serve them properly
Courts often require proof of attempted service before proceeding
2. Your Options for Serving Papers Overseas
Option 1: Military Postal Service (Preferred Method)
– Use the APO/FPO address from their unit
– Send via certified mail with return receipt requested
– Works for most bases where regular mail is delivered
Option 2: Personal Service Through Military Channels
– Hire a process server authorized near their base (hard but possible)
– Coordinate with their JAG office (they won’t serve papers but may accept them)
– Use the Foreign Claims Office if in a combat zone
Option 3: Alternative Service (When All Else Fails)
If you can prove you’ve made multiple failed attempts, you may petition the court for:
– Service by publication (newspaper ads)
– Service by email (if you have a verified address)
– Service to their last known stateside address
3. What NOT to Do
Don’t just email papers without court approval
Don’t skip trying physical service first
Don’t assume they’re avoiding service—deployment complicates everything
4. After Service: Next Steps
– File your proof of service with the court
– Be prepared for potential delays (SCRA allows 90+ day extensions)
– If they don’t respond, you may need to request a default hearing
Need Help Navigating Overseas Service?
Our military divorce attorneys have handled hundreds of international service cases. We know how to get it done right.
